Simple, Honest Words from a Humble Parent

 

“It can be lonely…..”

“…but, you are not the only one.”

 

Hear words of truth and encouragement from Julie Lee, a parent of children with disabilities. Julie, like many parents, has learned, from experience and researching, how to navigate the journey (advocating, parenting, etc) and all of the emotions and questions that come with it.

 

Advocacy

 

  • Truly be your child’s advocate.

  • Do not give up.

  • YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY ONE with a child who is struggling.

  • But, it can be lonely.

  • Help your child learn what kind of learner they are.

  • Recognize stress signals in your child.....how he/she might be struggling.

 

Timing

 

  • Don’t wait if you have a concern.

  • Do not let anyone put you off or delay your attempts to assess or test or get help.

  • Don’t think “this will go away.” Don’t lose valuable time where your child could benefit from interventions or activities support that will empower them BEFORE they become totally discouraged.

 

Ask

 

  • Ask for help.

  • Ask questions.

  • Ask what is available to help support child.

 

Support

 

  • You need a TEAM of support.

  • Special Education offers A WIDE VARIETY of support

  • Speak to your child about how you and your family are going to find the support they need.

 

Testing

 

  • Test wisely, to pinpoint the areas of need.

  • Test with correct instruments that will provide necessary data.

  • Test to find the disability or disparity. Not to avoid a student qualifying.

  • Have someone (a consultant, psychometrist, or SPED teacher) re-read and re-explain the reports.

  • The IEP documents make things look very complicated and are intimidating so ask a professional any questions.

Cody Nall